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Not All Childhood Imprints Are Meant to Be Unlearned: The Values Worth Carrying Forward

Not all childhood imprints are meant to be unlearned….

Some are meant to be consciously carried forward.

What we see, hear, and experience repeatedly in childhood quietly wires our brain. It shapes how we think, respond, and—most importantly—how we treat people.

Over time, we are taught to identify limiting beliefs, challenge them, and replace them. And yes, many deserve that work.

But not all.

Some imprints are not sabotaging us. They are serving us—silently, consistently.
Maybe you grew up observing:

1) Respect without labels—where people were valued not for titles, age, or status, but for being human.
2) Thinking beyond individualism—where we mattered as much as me. Quiet kindness, even in disagreement.
3) The belief that relationships matter as much as results.

These imprints don’t announce themselves.

They show up subtly—in how you listen, how you pause before reacting, how you disagree without diminishing the other person.

Not every belief needs correction. Some need acknowledgement. Some need gratitude. Some need intentional retention.

So here’s a question worth sitting with:

Which childhood imprint do you choose to keep—because it helps you treat others with dignity, fairness, and care in your current role, relationships, or leadership?

Growth isn’t always about becoming someone new. Sometimes, it’s about remembering what shaped you right.

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We Don’t React to People. We React to Our Unhealed Parts.

Kuch bhi ho jae… insan ki parchhai uska peecha nahi chorti …!

Strange, isn’t it?
We think we are reacting to people…
But most of the time, we are reacting to our own unhealed parts.

Have you ever noticed…
There are some behaviours that irritate us instantly — but only when certain people do it?
Not everyone. Not every situation.

Just a few people… and suddenly our patience evaporates.
It feels like they are the problem.

But actually…
It’s a primitive pattern we have carried for years.
A belief we never questioned.
A wound we never healed.
A “shadow” we never made peace with.

What we resist in others is often what we have not accepted in ourselves.

-> If someone’s arrogance irritates you, maybe you were never allowed to express confidence.
-> If someone’s emotional outburst bothers you, maybe you grew up suppressing your own emotions.
-> If someone’s indecisiveness frustrates you, maybe you were forced to be overly responsible throughout life.

We aren’t fighting with people.
We are fighting with the mirror they unknowingly hold.

Life has a beautiful but difficult way of showing us our own reflection through others.
And till the time we don’t heal the belief, the pattern, the narrative…
The same behaviours will keep showing up in different people.

->Not to irritate us.
->But to teach us.
->To help us grow.
->To make us emotionally more aware and free.

Next time someone triggers you — pause.
Ask yourself:
“Is this about them… or about something unhealed within me?”
Because eventually…
We all realise:
Jis cheez se hum bhaagte hain, wohi cheez sabse zyada humein dikhayi jaati hai.
Not as punishment,
But as an invitation —
To finally heal.

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What a Calm Deer Taught Me About Psychological Safety

My Deer Friend 🦌:) My deer friend wasn’t running from anyone.

He was just… there. Calm. Still. Unafraid.
And standing there, quietly, it reinforced something very simple yet very powerful:

Love creates psychological safety. Before words. Before explanations. Before logic.

Every living being asks only one question first: “Am I safe here?”
Animals feel this instantly. They don’t need reassurance speeches or policies.
They sense intent. Presence. Energy.

Humans are no different. We just learn to ignore that instinct as we grow up.
At work. At home. In relationships.

Psychological safety isn’t created by big titles, long emails, or fancy culture decks. It’s created in small moments when someone feels:
a) I won’t be judged here
b) I won’t be punished for being honest
c) I don’t need to pretend to belong

That’s love — in its most practical, everyday form.
Not romance. Not emotion overload. Just care that removes fear.

If a deer can feel safe without sharing a language, it makes me wonder —
why do us as humans, who share words and systems, still hesitate to speak up or be themselves?

Maybe because safety isn’t announced. It’s felt.
And wherever love exists — in leadership, in teams, in families — people soften, open up, and give their best.

Because love is not weakness. Love is safety.
And safety is where trust, creativity, and real connection begin.

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The Morning Rhythm That Shapes My Day

They say the morning shows the day and, in my experience, it’s true.

As a coach and mentor, I’ve seen brilliant people feel scattered not because they lack ambition, but because they lack a simple morning rhythm.

Here’s the routine that keeps my days purposeful and calm.
I’m sharing the simple morning rituals that keep me grounded.
If they help you show up better, my work here is done.

GRATITUDE (30 seconds): The moment my feet touch the floor, I say thank you; for a new day, a fresh start, another chance to do better than yesterday.
It resets my energy before the world claims it.
MEDITATION (20 minutes): We try to control the world; but as per me, the wiser move is to train the mind.
Sitting in stillness helps me respond instead of react, make clearer decisions, and carry quiet confidence into the day.
SILENT FOCUS (10 minutes): No phone. No noise. I revisit my vision and ask: “What truly matters today?”
If I could do only one thing, what would move me closest to my goal? This keeps my to-do list honest.

The morning is the engine of the day.
When I tune the engine, the journey aligns; goals feel clearer, work feels lighter, and progress compounds.

Try this for one week. Edit the timings, but keep the spirit.
If it helps you even a little, my purpose is served.

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